Undateable Me

So after he sends the text I am very curious as to what he meant. Was he saying he is crazy to be asking me out again? So I call and he spills his big idea. His idea is for us to change our facebook statuses and say that we are in a relationship with one another. I start cracking up because I think it's a great idea since everyone keeps calling us on everything we say and do. When I accepted the request the firestorm ensued. First no one believed but then after a few days they started thinking about it. Some did believe and said congrats. Now remember this is on my main page so ALL my family and friends could see this so I had some explaining to do to some people and tell them that it was a practical joke. Now what I wasn't expecting was his mother's opinion. Now let me briefly go back and tell you a back story. This guy is my brother n laws cousin, so people love to say that we are family even though we clearly are not. So when his mother saw it she immediately called him a vetoed me. She said she remembered me...when I was 8 and she has seen me around at some holiday parties. He didn't ask a reason why but I soon figured it out after talking to my sister. Turns out my sister and she do not have the greatest of family relationships. They both don't really say much to one another when they see one another, so therefore an opinion has been made. My sis even said no, but I told her he and I have nothing to do with their issues, that is if we decided to actually date. Therefore he made me undateable even though he keeps telling me how much he wants to. As for the other message, he asked me to his office Christmas party. Of course I accepted his invitation. After doing so the women around him started to look at him a bit differently.

The Meeting

So there is a guy that I know. We are constantly harrassing one another. Day in and day out to the point where our friends will start things just to have us going back and forth like a married couple. So we decided to go out. Now it was and wasn't a date. He wanted to go to this restaurant because he wanted to know what food they hand before his Christmas party this past weekend. So he picked me up and we had dinner. Great conversation and our weird sense of humor made the evening fun. After dinner we went to local bar which has $1 shots. We tossed back a few, laughed at people and chit chatted. When he brought me home we sat in his car and talked for another 2+ hours. This dude even had the nerve to stroke my hair, almost making me fall asleep. Then he admired my hand. Actually is was a nice meeting. The next day he woke me up witht he text, "I'm about to do something crazy", "Can I take you out this weekend?"

~Tiff

I Got The Dating Blues

I think I am to the point where I am willing to take a date with almost anyone.  I know sounds a bit desperate.  I think part of it is that I am in need of adult conversation and a better reason to play dress up.  An old friend of mine has been asking me out for months now and I finally caved putting the ball back in his court of the where and when.  We will see what happens with this.  The only def thing I can say is that he is not getting any.  Hope that won't put a damper on the evening.

Tiff

QUESTION:  "Is It Terrible To Really Want To Go Out On A Date?"

Why Did He Have To Call Me

As much as I like to hear from married dude, it drives me nut-so when he calls me.  We always chit chat for an hour or so acting like teenagers, which we are not.  The flirtation is full of innuendos and make us both laugh and every conversation goes back to, "why didn't we date and why did things have to be the way they are?"  I think that always pushes me over the edge because part of me wants to scream, "what is the point of asking these questions".  He always mentions how he was "tricked" into marriage and that his wife is not who he thought she was.  I know he only says this to keep me on the hook but hey like I said before he doesn't have that hold over me anymore now that I can picture him with his infant.  Oh, what a world, what a world.

Tiff

My New Blog Adventure

Lately my life has been a hot chocolate mess.  My love life is on the bends and is falling apart around.  On one side I have all my unhappily married friends and on the other are my unhappily single friends and I am stuck in the middle trying to figure this crap out.  Help me!!!!